|  | [文章簡介] | | 如何做好自我發展(成長),這篇文章對每個人應該都是很實用,很值得深思的。好好的對待自己,讓自己快樂,讓自己成長,讓自己的生命更豐富~ | [學習焦點] | | 線上字典:奇摩雅虎 or Cambridge Dictionaries How to Develop Yourself | by Anonymous | | As long as you are still alive, you are capable of changing and growing. You can do anything you want to do, be anything you want to be. Listen to some positive thoughts on how to continue your self development and then apply them in your own life. 只要你還活著,就有繼續改變與成長的能力。你可以做你想做的事情,成為你想成為的人。多聽一些延伸自我發展的正面想法,並在你的生活中去實行。 - Accept personal responsibility for your own growth; no one can do it for you. What you do today will determine your readiness for tomorrow.
- Take time every day to do something for yourself.
- Take classes to stay current in your field of expertise. The world is changing rapidly and you must learn to manage change to avoid obsolescence. The way Will Rogers put this was that "Even if you are on the right track, if you just sit there you will get run over."
- Listen to cassette tapes on personal and professional growth topics.
- Never look back to the past-you only can control your actions in this instant, so what should you be doing right now?
- Learn from "other people's experience" rather then having to try everything for yourself. It shortens the time needed to learn.
- Dealing with a problem helps you learn patience and strengthens your management skills; it is good mental exercise.
- Analyze, in a non-judgmental way, mistakes in which you were involved. It will help you to prevent these in the future.
- Reward yourself when you catch yourself working on the most important priorities.
- Never say something can't or won't be done. Keep looking for ways to do it.
- After attending a seminar, report to your boss or other people in your organization, what the most important things are that you learned from the program.
- For all learning experiences, whether it is reading, seeing, thinking or attending, apply the R squared, A squared formula: Recognize, Relate, Assimilate, and Apply. These actions will help you grow in the direction of your goals.
- Eliminate one time waster a week from your life.
- Read a minimum of one chapter of a book a day.
- Read a minimum of one book a month.
- Be hungry for what life has to offer and go for it.
- Decide what you really desire to do-then do it.
- When you have the option of reading a book or listening to the cassette tape version of the program, listen to the tape. It will be more to the point and can be done while you are driving, jogging/walking, or getting other routine things done.
- Develop a "master mind" group of four or five people with whom you can openly discuss ideas in a nonjudgmental way.
- Develop yourself as a resource for others by networking. Find out who does what, when, and for whom. You may find excellent contacts for your future needs and for the needs of others you meet.
- Work for balance in your life goals: family, financial, professional, social, spiritual, recreational.
- Always keep your goals in mind as you start a new activity.
- If you do a lot of work with the calculator, run the machine with the hand you don't use for writing.
- Do not be afraid of failing at something. You can learn and change as a result of it.
- The most difficult projects are opportunities for your biggest successes just as the most difficult people could become your strongest allies.
- Put up pictures of your dreams and goals where you will see them frequently. They will remind you and aid you in focusing and visualizing your goal.
- We all have the same 24 hours in a day. Learn from those people who get more done than you do. Perhaps you can find a way to improve what you are doing.
- Find a nonjudgmental mentor who will help you by providing feedback, suggestions, challenges and support.
- Identify some "models" and observe their style and actions. Do not copy them but learn from their experiences.
- Learn from the errors you see others make as well as from their successes.
- Fill your mind with positive ideas, thoughts and inspirations and you will have no room left for the negative.
- Trade jobs with someone so you gain additional experience.
- Ask for and accept lateral moves in the organization so you learn more about the entire operation.
- Do more than your "self doubts" say you can.
- Have confidence that you can get through and learn from anything and everything you experience.
- Reward yourself with a treat when you have completed a learning objective.
- Keep a daily journal, recording your thoughts, ideas, feelings and personal growth progress.
- Ask questions, listen, then ask more questions. You will learn as well as help others learn.
- Ask yourself, "How can I manipulate my fate?"
- Do things with someone you respect. They will be supportive of you and you will learn from interacting with them.
- Seek new information on projects for which you have responsibility. Look for new "ah ha" ideas all the time.
- Challenge yourself to learn something new every day.
- Remain flexible and constantly adaptable.
- Be open to others and sincerely interested in them. You can learn from everyone you meet.
- Mentally rehearse a new skill. Your subconscious does not know the difference between actual practice and mental rehearsal.
- Keep a record of what you accomplished the previous day(s)/week. If you did not accomplish as much as you wanted, it gives you extra incentive to do better in the next time period.
- Make notes of the questions you want answered. Then as the answers come to you, jot them down next to the question.
- Work on overcoming personal, nonproductive habits; for example: overeating, smoking, gossip.
- Keep an "Idea File" ring binder or notebook in which you record all new ideas. At least once a week in a standing appointment with yourself, review your ideas.
| | | [額外補充] | | Two weeks ago was my forty-fifth birthday, and 兩個禮拜前是我四十五歲的生日, I wasn't feeling too hot that morning anyway. 那天早上我的心情還不錯。 I went to breakfast knowing my wife would be pleasant and say 我想說吃早餐的時候,我老婆一定會高興的跟我說 "Happy Birthday," and probably have a present for me. "生日快樂",搞不好還會準備一個禮物送我呢! She didn't even say "Good Morning," alone any "Happy Birthday." 結果她不但沒有跟我說"生日快樂",就連"早安"也沒一句。 I thought, "Well, that's wives for you. Maybe the children will remember." 我想,"算了,老婆就是這樣。可能小孩會記得吧。" The children came in to breakfast and didn't say a word. 結果小孩來吃早餐的時候,也是什麼都沒說。 When I started to the office I was feeling pretty low and despondent. 等我到公司的時候,我已經覺得滿沮喪的了。 As I walked into my office, my secretary, Janet, said, 當我要走進辦公室的時候,我的秘書,珍娜,對我說, "Good morning boss, Happy Birthday." "早安阿~~老闆,生日快樂。" And I felt a little better; someone had remembered. 我頓時覺得好一點;至少還有人記得。 I worked until noon. Then Janet knocked on my door and sa id, 工作到了中午,珍娜敲敲我的門,說, "You know, it's such a beautiful day outside and it's your birthday, let's go to lunch, just you and me." ''你知道嗎?今天天氣不錯,而且又是你的生日,不如到外面用餐吧,就我跟你。" I said, "That's the best thing I've heard all day. Let's go." 我說,"那是我今天聽到最好聽的話,走吧!" We went to lunch. We didn't go where we normally go; 我們沒有到我們平常用餐的地方; we went out into the country to a little private place. 反而去了郊外一個比較私人的地方。 We had two martinis and enjoyed lunch tremendously. 我們點了兩杯馬丁尼好好的享受這頓午餐。 On the way back to the office, she said, "You know, it's such a beautiful day. 在回去的路上,她說,"今天真的是美好的一天。 We don't need to go back to the office, do we?" 我想我們不一定要回去公司吧?" I said, "No, I guess not." She said, "Let's go to my apartment." 我說,"我想不用吧。" 她說,"那不如去我家吧。" After arriving at her apartment she said, "Boss, if you don't mind, 到了她家之後,她說,"老闆,如果你不介意, I think I'll go into the bedroom and slip into something more comfortable." 我想到房間換件比較舒服的衣服。" "Sure," I excitedly replied. She went into the bedroom and, "當然," 我興奮的說。於是她進去房間, in about six minutes, she came out carrying a big birthday cake, 六分鐘之後,她拿了一個大生日蛋糕出來, followed by my wife, children and dozens of our friends. 接著走出來的是我太太,小孩,以及一群朋友。 All were singing "Happy Birthday" 全部唱著 "生日快樂" 歌, .. . . . . and there on the couch I sat... naked. 而我則坐在沙發上..............一絲不掛。 | |
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